How did you learn about her conversation with her client?
I hope you will not care what she says to her clients or friends. You know what is real and true. You know you are not a bad person. You do not have to prove you are good.........just be yourself.
Come to vent on the board as much as you want.
Keep doing a good job.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!