Originally Posted By: InFocus
My behavior stems from insecurity and immaturity, lack of understanding of what real love looks like. My own parents divorce and emotional abuse to eachother and to me. I handle my emotions dysfunctionally, even though my coping mechanisms and my own discipline have led me from literal poverty to some career and professional success.

Then I think you start here.
How can you have a successful relationship with your W or any other woman with all of this going on?

I think the rest of it isnt that important if you arent working on these things.