I do think she can sense the change in my attachment though
Is there a change? To me, it sounds like your mood and opinion and feeling is kind of based on her actions and how she is treating you. So where is the change in your detachment level?
Originally Posted By: Steve85
What I can tell you is that I'm 75% of the time fine with whatever happens, 15-20% of the time ready to push things forward including towards D of need be. And only 5-10% of the time worried thatI might lose her.
Man, would I not want to make a huge financial commitment with my relationship in this state.
Originally Posted By: Steve85
As for GAL, i continue to hang out with friends. I'm working out but work often interferes with that. And I'm busy a lot. Some includes her (church events, D14 events, house viewings), some do not (shooting range, hanging with friends, working out, after work activities). But I rarely have down time. And I'm really in a good place emotionally the majority of the time.
What new things are you doing? I seem to recall a lot of that was things that you 'used to do' that you are maybe ramping back up. Im interested in what kinds of new developments you are doing.