The wife said via text today that "She doesn't mind the idea of splitting vet costs, but it might be a few months before I can really do that".

My gut reaction is that "that's not my problem, and should have been considered before you moved out". But I haven't responded yet. Might wait until after the coaching session to respond.

Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18