I am sorry Steve, but it's just not been long enough for a proper turn around and consistent commitment. What are you guys doing in MC?
What are your non-negotiables for the MR to work? Have you put that out in MC?
As RR also said, you have time on your side. Jumping in too fast just kicks the next BD down the road.
Are you in some way trying to buy this new house to keep her around longer? To show that you can provide a lifestyle and so she will change her mind and stay? Maybe you're not overtly doing it with those reasons, but at a subtle level, is this house purchase about her? Think on it.
I don't buy your yes answers to my questions because I have not seen a single sitch turn around that fast. And yours is not exceptional.
Proceed with caution and skepticism. Cannot say enough - you have time. Slow it down.
