Do not make any decisions on analysis on how things are going for at least 2 weeks - try that for size.
Just be and GAL and do your thing. Let her go and be.
You are all over the map and trying to major life decisions re: Home purchase.
Give yourself at least six-eight months from BD and the reassess things. She has to be absolutely committed to the MR and none of this meek or halfway s#%t will matter.
Has she done a complete 180 and her actions, words, and attitude line up together? And is that happening consistently? Has she shown true humility and remorse?
Until the answers to those questions are unquestionably yes, just stop and get some grounding.
I've seen you give advice to a lot of people here, but are you taking any of that yourself? Slow it down.
