I know, crazy isn't it? Lol. I actually live in one of the most conservative parts of California. Anywhere else in the state it's probably hard to find.
Originally Posted By: Steve85
Ok, interesting Meg. Do you think any of this was manipulative or do you think maybe this is coming from a place of genuineness? I know early on in my sitch my wife was giving me breadcrumbs hoping it would prevent me from spying and snooping. She knew she could never prevent me from finding things if I wanted to (she never has been in the past, if I really want to know something she knows I will find out a way).
However, more recently the "breadcrumbs" have come from a place of genuineness. It is funny, but usually your gut feeling about this kind of behavior is correct. If it feels like manipulation, it probably is.
It doesn't feel manipulative at all. My gut/heart tells me it's genuine, but my head tells me don't look to deep into it. Just keep doing what I'm doing.
I did forget to mention another 180 I'm sure he's noticed. For the longest time I "let myself go", stopped taking pride in my appearance. The last several times H and I have had interactions, no matter what the situation, I've made sure to have my hair and makeup done, and more than just sweats/jean and tshirt on. Like yesterday, in the past when we go to the gun range I'd just wear old jeans, sneakers, t-shirt and no makeup with hair in ponytail. Yesterday I had dressed nice with hair and makeup done before he picked me up.
Me-44,H-44 S21,S19,S17,D13 M-22,T-29 (off and on prior to M) BD:12-20-17 (H said he had things to work out in his head) H moved out:3-4-18
