Each day that passes is closer to the day she moves out but I'm feeling more and more used and abused and I respect myself more than that. I am more valuable and deserve better. I want to be with someone that wants me. I can file and secure my financial status but garauntee any chance at recon reduced to almost nothing.
Your W asking you what she did wrong, why are you acting like a jerk is fuching hilarious to me. That's how wacked out they are right now.
You are more valuable and do deserve better! Protect yourself financially, if that means filing for D then file for D. The biggest misconception on this board is that if you stand up for yourself and demand respect and file for D that eliminates any chance of recon. I argue to the contrary. Most of these sitches have to go through D before there is a chance at recon. The funny thing is you will have moved on by then.
