The nice thing about time and distance is it's helped me realize I don't want to be married to the woman my wife became any more. That realization makes it a lot easier to let go. I'm not saying "easy", but "easier". I still have times that I wish things were different.
Jim just want to point out that these two things ARE mutually exclusive. Not wanting to be married to who she has become, and wishing things were different are harmonious. Wishing she hadn't become what she has become is natural. I applaud you for realizing that you don't like who she has become. So many of us get into denial and want to think we are still dealing with the girl that we married.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
