Yes it can be both. In fact, your second description is what feeds the first. Weak and trying to make S happy is what causes the manipulative and passive-aggressive behavior as the NG also tries to get his needs met through that behavior. The trying to make S happy is based on really being nice or love, but on hoping for reciprocation.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
