Ugh... I know what you mean... I hate bread crumbs too.
BUT - you are keeping interactions with your H positive... not negative. That's a good thing.
The last thing you want is to have your H leaving under the guise of an argument or a negative interaction. Keep all things about you positive!!! But, that doesn't mean you don't need good healthy boundaries. Remember what I said about not being available for every text, call or meeting... ok?