You can detach and take care of you and the kids while she figures it out- Detaching has to do with letting go-accepting where she is- where you are- where the M is focusing on your happiness and how to get there and trusting somehow it will be ok No matter what she does
There are a lot of good men here to learn from You can stand for your M. and at the same time work on you- Change those aspects of yourself that do not work for you or the M.. Listen to her, Validate her and let go
as you can see she can be close one day..and far away the next so find hobbies, time with friends, support groups, church, gym ect and make your life work for you-
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