Originally Posted By: Caz49
Unless I text my H, he acts like I don't exist. Tbh, it's been so long, I neither need or want to text him anymore. All the things I would've texted him about in the past, I strive to handle myself.

That's where I'm at. I ask myself, if I have a problem, will he be there for me in the way that I need? The answer is no. If something good happens, will he be happy for me and proud of me? I honestly don't know. I've reached a point where I no longer bother.

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Try and relax, get your work and exercise done and maybe enjoy the space if possible. Your H may miss you, he may find the time alone...lonely. Hopefully he'll allow himself some thinking time.

Doing just that. He is very lonely. He just goes out of his way not to allow himself any thinking time. He hasn't been wanting to think about what's going on with him and it's painfully obvious.


Me: 28
H: 30
T: 9 M: 7

WAH: First half of 2017. Round 2 started in Spring 2018.

Husband has begun an affair.