Withdrawal, The Worst Stage Yet?

[Rita]

I woke up to a five page letter from him, very painful, all about the idea "idea of home," still rewriting our history, detailing how I never loved him and bragging that the other woman would never leave her husband and kids. Made me wonder if you are spot on that he is stuck.

My very first post here was about stirring the pot. I remember people doing that when they were stuck but I don't know what it means. Or do you mean that here too, if he is stuck, there is nothing I can do but GAL? He mentioned in his letter that he started seeing a "spiritual therapist" but I imagine this person will just encourage him to leave such a horrible and controlling woman as he is presenting me to be. He refuses to attend counseling with me.