Thank you so much, Mleigh...it's just so hard. I had no idea. I'm trying my hardest to focus on my kids and not the looming fallout.

I'm so dreading the talk with my parents who are devout christians and will be utterly devastated. They adore her and our kids of course...I worry most that my dad who's 72 might have a breakdown of sorts.


Me: 43 She: 43
Married 14 Together 20
D7 S6
Separation bomb Dec 2017
Reconciled 3 weeks later Jan 2018
Second separation bomb April 2018