Would be thrilled with 3 times a week. Even once a week. But never is never. And never is not enough. It's hard to spin that one into an issue of perspective.
Life is cruel. I had a sexless marriage for 38 years. Then I escaped and found what I always wanted, a man who actually liked sex. Multiple times a day sex. For 5 years he was a freaking GOD in the bedroom...wherever! Then those days ended and here I am going on yet another sexless relationship. Yup, I know the common denominator is me.
I treated him like a king and catered to his every wish. I always wanted him to feel appreciated and loved. I wasn't a bitch, I didn't nag. I did everything I could but the party ended anyway!
Since last year no one has said yet they fixed one of these. I did read Michele's book a couple times but when I got into my new R I passed it on to someone else. Wish I still had it now but if memory serves me correctly she didn't have much luck actually fixing these either.