I am so very sorry that your SIL reached out and stated what she did. Sounds like your XW has been talking to her and giving her a sob story. She's a fool to even think that you would work "magic" to join in w/the XW to bring all together.
Sounds like the XW is trying every avenue to get to the girls. Well, she needs to step up and straighten herself out before attempting to see them. The girls will see right through her. Such a sad situation.
I think you did the right thing by setting her straight on how you feel about the situation. I do not think this will be the last time you hear from any of them. They'll try again...but they have to regroup once again.
I do hope that you and the girls have a pleasant weekend.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
