Ok, I hurt him. I didn't mean it, I have apologized endlessly and been the whipping post for a long time. I will gladly change my behavior, no problem. OM was 14 years ago. We've already moved past it. We had two more children. For him to destroy our M and our family over something that was an accident because his pride is soooo hurt that he's convincing himself of things that are just NOT true....for him to do this is sickening to me. He's abandoned me as his wife and is risking breaking our happy family. For what?? What do you tell someone about why you did that? Because I kissed another guy 14 years ago and then lost track of time and talked to a male coworker for too long at a company party? In 26 years, these are the only issues? And because of that you throw away something that you've admitted is otherwise nearly perfect?? It's disgusting that someone's ego can be that big.
Have you ever told him that? Without screaming or crying, just with calm and dignity.
Me: 28 H: 30 T: 9 M: 7
WAH: First half of 2017. Round 2 started in Spring 2018.
