I realize that what a WW or WAS says can't be trusted. I also have read in DB as well as rules to pay close attention to what your S is really saying, monitor and adjust, no?
I get it. Don't trust what you hear and see. Watch and listen but know that there are deceptive factors at play, right?
It is a roller coaster to say the least.
The hardest part of DBing is denying your own feelings, especially when you see positive results. Not to over-dramatize, but to tolerate abuse for the greater good of the union.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.