Hi sbj, thank you kindly for your reply. I'm now focusing on being the best dad I can be to my two little ones, and I'm so happy I've begun taking yoga again. I'm getting more mentally and physically fit as a result.

I'm debating being really sympathetic to her crisis, or just calling her bluff and cutting off all intimate contact and unnecessary questions and comments about her work and mt life.

Me: 43 She: 43
Married 14 Together 20
D7 S6
Separation bomb Dec 2017
Reconciled 3 weeks later Jan 2018
Second separation bomb April 2018