PsySara,

That's awful. Seriously, you and I should put out a vote here to decide which of our husband's hurtful statements should be the winner. Mine says we should have aborted our daughter. Yours says to die of an STD. Maybe it's a tie?

Everyone has fights and says things they don't mean. Usually an apology is issued in normal cases and usually the comments are not cruel to that extent.

I guess if anything your husband is making the divorce easier by not giving you anything to miss.

I really, really hope you get through this soon and can find peace. Take care and keep us posted.