EastTN, this is tragic. I'm sorry I haven't been active with your thread. I can't imagine what you've been through. It seems it'll take a long, long time to fully digest what all has happened. Is the cause-of-death anything that could be related to the divorce? This is a big wake-up call to everyone here, not that we're able to control what our spouses do, but to be aware of how our actions may affect human beings that are already quite fragile despite the pain they cause us. I'll keep you and your daughter in my thoughts and prayers.