R-Hang in there, I still remember my first week by myself like it was yesterday. Sleepless nights, lying in bed wondering what she was doing and who she was doing it with. I remember how quiet it was and dreaming that at any minute she was going to come bursting through the doors. You can GAL your butt off but there will still be times that you are home alone.

You will probably feel the urge at some point to reach out to her unsolicited and conduct a major a temp check. I did mine about a month after she moved out and she put me in place very quickly. Resist the urge and trust me that it will get better.

Hang in there!


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018