Sadly alcoholics make a choice to drink. When they drink they make poor choices too.
You may well know that an alcoholic has enablers who enjoy the control. They may also have codependents who hang on to R.
The faster the addicts falls into the black hole of rock bottom the better. To support them for years thinking that's the best thing is making the ultimate physical and mental damage much greater.
It really hurts to watch someone you love binge drink in this way. And binge drinking js very destructive to women who because of smaller livers and less muscle so they deteriorate much faster. As they deteriorate and get poorer then they dumb down and buy cheaper stronger alcohol. Their friends get more poisonous. It's a deterioration and it can be very destructive.
All you can do is observe, put down boundaries and let it go.
Remember, you didn't cause it, you can't control it and you can't cure it. Only ceasing to drink altogether for the rest of one's life will manage it, one day at a time.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
