Can I really do this?

[Dtrmned]

Steve
You hit the nail on the head!!!!

Outside of the health stuff, that is exactly how my wife is except her bubble hasn't burst yet. I even think (just based on the way she is talking to our D) that she believes she is going to be able to go and work a full time job. With debilitating chronic illness how is that going to be possible? I hope you and your wife work it out totally and she can come that extra 10-20% more and totally commit to you guys moving forward.

I do agree about the comment on the 10-20% part though is that they feel they are in some way settling, giving up, or whatever they may feel by staying. I don't want her to feel that way at all.

A LONG road ahead my friend...

Best wishes to you over the weekend and thanks again. I get a lot of strength from this board.