I had no idea what a MLC was until now...

[SBJ]

Jase, as you said it is all speculation for now, but everyone is simply using their experiences with their MLCer and relaying it to you. In most of the cases here there were affair partners. They were either emotional (EA), or physical (PA). In my case it was EA that I know about and I can tell you it hurt just as much as a physical betrayal.

She got crazy obsessed with the gym, dropped a ton of weight (is too skinny now), bought a ton of new, designer clothes in her new size, takes way longer to get dolled up for her trips down there or a couple hours of makeup if they're visiting the office here.

What you said here fit my sitch spot on. My MLCer did much of the same thing and when she knew she would be in the same vicinity of the OM would make sure she was as hot as she could. It was obvious later as to what was going on. She has always liked to look nice, but it got weird for sure.

I know everything is still new, but what are you doing to work on yourself for your own sanity?

Keep posting. Keeping learning. Keep growing.