I have not confronted her yet, but intend to ask about this new information and what it means. He has called her several times, always while I have been sleeping or working.
Not surprising, there's always an OM, even if it's an imaginary one. There's not much point in "confronting" her, I think you are clear that as far as she is concerned the M is over. So I'm not sure what you are expecting to achieve by confronting her? That will probably just look like pressure to her.
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We have been getting along much better since my last post. I have been keeping to my own side of the street, and we have had very few R discussions. The ones that we have had were productive, although she says that she still wants to D and sell our home. She has not filed for D yet.
Good, you're keeping the pressure off. That's why you're getting along better, she doesn't feel the need to keep reminding you that the M is done when you don't pressure her.