Thank you so much, Job. Very helpful words again. Yes I've begun reading all of the links and will have more time to devote to all of it shortly. This is like taking a college class with all of the ensuing homework, but I love it and find it therapeutic to get some answers and clarity even if I don't like what I hear all the time. It's very cathartic to have an outlet here especially with kind, empathetic people.
ps I appreciate you fast tracking my posting abilities
Me: 43 She: 43 Married 14 Together 20 D7 S6 Separation bomb Dec 2017 Reconciled 3 weeks later Jan 2018 Second separation bomb April 2018
