I would do it.....and to clarify you are not doing it to score brownie points your doing it because your a man of character and it's the right thing to do. IMO

Just remember to have no expectations.

I went out and bought my W a Christmas present but it was from my girls. She got me nothing but for me it was the right thing to do and I will do it for her birthday as well. When my girls get older and they are able to buy presents for themselves it will be a different story. But now they are innocent and don't really understand everything.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018