What is important here is taking care of you. You may think you are stubborn about taking the advice...but we all were that way for a long time. The advice has to sink in and once we realize that we can't fix them...they have to do it themselves, we can then begin to move forward inch by inch.
Do you want me to post the homework links to you? BTW, I have put in a request to have you released from moderation and hopefully that will happen very soon.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
