One thing my wife said that still sticks with me, and that I think is true for all WWs, is that what she was feeling at any particular moment maybe not be the way she was feeling the next. I know we are supposed to "believe none of what they say" but this emotional roller-coaster that WWs are on is very very real.
i find this to be true... there were several times during my "derailing," where i said one thing one day, and a few days later said the opposite... the thing is, i didn't realize i was doing it until H and/or our sons pointed it out to me... but i was really expressing how i felt at that particular moment... it's odd...
