One thing my wife said that still sticks with me, and that I think is true for all WWs, is that what she was feeling at any particular moment maybe not be the way she was feeling the next. I know we are supposed to "believe none of what they say" but this emotional roller-coaster that WWs are on is very very real.
So please take her introspection with a grain of salt. What she might feel the moment she said it, may not be the way she feels the next time you interact with her. Frustrating? Absolutely. But then dealing with a WW is the most frustrating thing a H can go through, IMHO.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018