Thank you Helena. I am leaning towards staying at the relatives house. It is a cheaper option for me at this time. What surprises me so much is that her family does not appear to want to get involved in this sitch. If my WAW were my daughter, I would be all over her questioning why she is making this decision and recommending she give it another chance. What makes no sense to me is why a WAW who says she wants a divorce want me to stay at her relatives house? And why does she not just file when I tell her I wont object? She is becoming colder and colder to me, really testing my patience and resolve. Do borrow from a DBr I feel I've made myself into someone only a fool would leave..