I had no idea what a MLC was until now...

[Gordie]

JaseP,

I’m sorry you are here. I heard so many of the exact same words two years ago so let me say first...this is a marathon.

So let me put this out there. I’m going to say there is a pretty good chance your w is at a minimum very attracted to OM and doesn’t know what to do with those feelings. Maybe it’s crossed into EA maybe it’s crossed into PA. You don’t know.

At a minimum she is confused: let’s separate. Let’s stay together. I love you. I don’t want to be married to you. Let’s have lots of sex. Let’s stop sleeping together.

So don’t say it’s past the point of no return. Take care of yourself. Live one day at a time. Don’t think about the future. You have no idea where this road leads. Give w lots of space. Detach. Do the homework.