No affair, no feelings...is there hope?

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This will be short because I'm on mobile and don't have a whole lot of lunch break left.

DO NOT MOVE OUT!

SHE wanted the separation. It is on HER to figure things out. By the way, did you know that her command will move HER to the barracks if there is an issue? That's right! This is your marital home and as her spouse, you have rights.

You need to go talk to the local JAG office ASAP. Figure out exactly what your rights are. Do NOT tell her you're going. Just go when she is at work.

Thank you, Olya. You and Amoafwl have helped me rule out leaving as an option. I don't want to, and she isn't forcing me to, at least not yet. I am just struggling with how to give her the space she needs. I had not considered the possibility of having her moved to the dorms...if she does decide to push me to leave, I am glad to have this in my arsenal. Also, this could be an option for her to pursue if she truly wishes for that space.