Steve...in my opinion you need to decide what your boundaries are and what your willing to enforce.
I would just take a deep breathe, calm yourself and don't go blitzkrieg when you get home making emotional decisions.
Two days ago your making long posts about piecing, your W moving over to the middle of the bed and your success story of what got you to this point and how you were detached. Now your going b@lls to the wall to do what?
Calm ,steady, non-emotional...what are you willing to accept and not accept? What are your personal boundaries?
