Jim was thinking about your sitch earlier. And I want to take back (no pun intended!) what I said earlier about the timing. Your timing is much longer than the "just over a week" I characterized it. You guys have been piecing for a long time, and the recent problems you guys had does appear to be more of a slip up on her part as opposed to a full blown walk backward into waywardness.
I think that is important for people to remember. She didn't necessarily become full blown wayward again, maybe she did. The recent activity is too early to tell, but you guys have had a longtime of trying to heal and reconnect. And maybe that is where some of your frustration at other posters came from, in them forgetting where you were prior to BD2.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018