This will be short because I'm on mobile and don't have a whole lot of lunch break left.
DO NOT MOVE OUT!
SHE wanted the separation. It is on HER to figure things out. By the way, did you know that her command will move HER to the barracks if there is an issue? That's right! This is your marital home and as her spouse, you have rights.
You need to go talk to the local JAG office ASAP. Figure out exactly what your rights are. Do NOT tell her you're going. Just go when she is at work.
Me: 28 H: 30 T: 9 M: 7
WAH: First half of 2017. Round 2 started in Spring 2018.