No affair, no feelings...is there hope?

[44tries]

44tries,

I know you're going to hate this, but the sooner you can say, "Adios babeeee; have a great life" the better your chances are of saving your marriage. But, I understand that's almost impossible to do because of the psychological barriers. We all become Klingons on BD and we just can't seem to stop clinging.

I don't hate it. Yes, it feels almost impossible because accepting she is gone and moving on cannot live in the same space as wanting to save the marriage. Fighting and surrendering at the same time. But, I understand the point, and majority of the time it may unfortunately be true.