His letter is kind of typical WAH scripted garbage. I wouldn't pay much attention to it.
Originally Posted By: 2surviv
I don’t want a divorce at this stage...
With this in mind I would say...
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I thought I could email him back and say that if this is what he really wants then he needs to proceed and that I will not have any further contact with him ever again – if it’s over then it’s over – there will be no going back, and everything can be negotiated through solicitors. I want to make it clear to him that this course of action is entirely his choice and that I am not in agreement with his decision but have no option but to accept it.
... scrap all this. Just do not reply at all. If you don't want a D then don't bother replying. Your silence will eat at him more than any reply you might send. So let it eat at him. Let him wonder what you're up to. Let him wonder what kind of amazing new life you're building without him. Let him start to miss you.
