lost and desperate think she has closed Part 2

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Well, met with W as she was helping retrieve the horses after they got loose. She took a few more belongings. She couldn't look me in the face the whole time we talked.
Discussed the time frame for her to get the rest of her things. Also discussed her paying half the mortgage (she was not happy about that). we talked about the joint debt and that we should use tax return for that. Did not discuss the issue of the horses and trailer, will do that later.
I asked her what she was doing about her nieces birthday as far as the card and gift. She got all bent out of shape "asking why are you going?" Told her I wasn't going. She said it made things uncomfortable and weird. I told her I could send a card on my own. She seems to be changing her tune about not keeping me away from her family. I guess this is where I make my stand.
Still have not heard anything about the D papers. She was more interested in when the refinance would be done. Think she is waiting to see what the appraisal will be to demand buy out based on that.
I have been working hard on GAL and going NC. It is hard knowing she is with the OM whenever she wants.