Originally Posted By: AnotherStander
. As hard as it is, you've got to suck it up and accept that your feelings DON'T matter to her right now. All that matters are HER feelings. So you listen and validate, and you bite your tongue when you want to speak up about your needs not being met. Don't vent to her, vent to us. That's what we're here for.



This is such good advice. Advice I didn't heed this morning. And now I am at work and have no idea what firestorm I will walk into tonight. frown


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