RR17, some advice I was given early on was to not initiate sex. Apparently there is nothing less attractive to a WAW/WW than a husband trying for sex.
Maybe Arista or sandi can tell you more about it, but I was advised against it, and told if she initiate I could go through with it as long as I didn't read anything into it.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018