Daughter wants to sign up for a new activity. We have been pushing her to become more involved in school. The activity she has finally chosen will cost my wife and I $1000 just for the summer. Kind of put it to my wife that SHE needs to tell our daughter that she can't do this since the impact of us not being able to do this is due to her decision (totally financial). Am i wrong in letting my wife feel the ramifications of her decisions come to roost in this way? I can't make it easy for her and handle everything and I still believe my wife is delusional about how her lifestyle is going to change drastically (and unfortunately my children as well) with regard to her decision.
I don't want to be a jerk, not trying to put it on her as her total responsibility, but trying to get her to realize how this will truly affect everyone.
Am I right or wrong or somewhere in between?
M51 W44 T21 M18 D14 S11 BD date 9/17 W filed 02/18 W withdrew petition following week In house separation 03/18 In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18 W is moving out by mid Nov 2018 A drawing up paperwork 11/18
