When we separated the first time it was over games. I quit the instant she told me she was done with our marriage. She still moved out. It took me moving on when she came back around after 5-6 months. She fears me now because the love and attraction are real, but my behaviors hurt her and make her feel unloved.
At this point, it may be too late to save. But I will do all the right actions and behaviors to make her realize her mistake.
Just like most of us on here in this forum. We are striving to be better.