Originally Posted By: Olya

Yes. Until and unless she says it, you don't know where you stand with her or what her terms are.


Agreed. This has basically been my situation for the past year because she never did explicitly say anything. I don't want that to happen again.


M: 26 W: 26
M: 1.5 T: 3
No kids
BD: 31 March 2018

W's affair began: 23 March 2018
Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018
Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018
Ended in-house separation: July 2018