.. but I'd rather she not quit as that would make things very hard on us financially... an added stressor id just as soon avoid right now.
I'm about to smack you upside the head with a 2x4.
"I want to make it work with my wife above all else!" You may not have said that but you sure have been acting it. Yet you aren't willing to remove the last direct connect OM has to your wife for the sake of......money? -groan-
Dude, take her up on this. Get her out of there. That job was an enabler for her continued contact with him. It is a temptation she can't afford. And it is a temptation that you can afford to have removed. Plus it will call her bluff. Likely she offered to quit thinking you'd say not to.
If you end up divorced, and in 10 years you look back and realize that her keeping this job is what did your marriage in, how will you feel?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
