So-- yeah. Despite all the "he is cheating" stuff (that may push me away from this site), it's been a relatively good few days.
Why would that push you from the site? Everyone is reading what you are typing and questioning if you are sure he isn't in an A. The only way that would push you from the site is if you wanted to remain in denial about the possibility.
Let me ask you this mybest, two years ago would you have thought your husband would ask for a separation and move out of the house? WASs/WSs are capable of anything and you have to be prepared for the worst. The reason we are suggesting he may be in an A is to help you mentally prepare, so that if that bomb drops you can follow DB techniques instead of falling into the usual pattern of behavior that will only drive him further away.
So while you may still get responders asking about a possible A and floating the possibility, you shouldn't let that push you from the site. Unless that is a threat hoping those of us that have raised the possibility to back off? In which case that shows level of manipulation even here on this board that isn't very healthy.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
