So just to update what’s happened in the last couple of days.

This was her weekend to keep D3, she called me on Sunday, I didn’t not answer but got a text right after asking if it was ok if d3 stayed at her parents house for this week. They live 2 hours away. I replied “I don’t think it’s a good idea”

Yesterday she came by to pick up D and a buddy of mine was outside waiting for me to go to the gym. He said hello to her and she proceeded to tell him “ what’s wrong with your friend(me)?” He doesn’t answer when I call him and he didn’t let our D stay at my parents.

Today she was late to pick up our D from her usual time, about an hour later than usual. I told her I didn’t mind but if she was running late to please give me a heads up as I had my own agenda. Not being rude or anything, just a friendly comment. She told me she would no longer need me to drop her off at her house and she would pick her up everyday from my place. Nothing to do with any of this but she mentioned it...


Could it be that me not pursuing her and not being readily available is having an effect?

Also spoke to MIL and she said that W told her she loved me so much for so long and I was never able to love her as much in return, or so she feels that way. She did mention that she commented she would seek IC sometime in late May, wether she goes through with this I don’t know.

What are your thoughts on this? Thanka


M:26 WAW:26
T:11 M:7
D:3
BD 1 10/16
I love you but not in love
BD 2 2/18
I love you but...
W moves out 3/18