As an update. Judge questioned her motives for TRO and she broke down crying and agreed to dissolve it. It was done to posture for child custody and our upcoming divorce.

So sick and twisted to exaggerate and just make me out to be the complete bad guy. I am not sure how to process all the games she currently plays to justify this...her feelings and desire to leave. To be with another man.

Finally get to see and talk to my kids after 3 weeks. Thank goodness for that.

She looked terrible and worn. I am sure the last 3 weeks have been hard on her. I did so much with the kids. Here on out, it's solo parenting for us both. I will not falter there. My kids need me and I will be there like a champion.

I just want to have some say in what days I get the kids, but I don't want to be too picky. Any advice here?